Embark on a journey of discovery as we delve into the transformative power of Floortime in embracing a child’s natural play inclinations. A while back, an Instagram photo inspired me to invite the photographer for a guest post about child-led play. Sara Roberts is an ASHA certified Speech-Language Pathologist based in New York. She received training in Floortime while in graduate school at Queens College. Floortime’s foundations greatly benefit her work with children on the Autism Spectrum in Early Intervention, preschool, and elementary school settings. You can follow her on:
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/slptree/
- Teachers Pay Teachers: https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Store/Slp-Tree
Do you know how to play with children on the spectrum?
Playing with a child that barely or does not at all acknowledge your presence can be intimidating. It can make you feel lost. I have seen many adults (myself included at one time) try to interact by asking questions and get nowhere.
“You’re playing with the animals?” … No response.
“Which one is your favorite?” … No response.
“Can I have a lion?” … No response.
Strategies such as Following the Child’s Lead, Parallel and Self Talk, and Expansion are KEY to working on joint attention, engagement, as well as language and play development.
Here is an example of what this looks like in action:
A child was playing with toy animal figures by silently standing the animals up and knocking
them down repeatedly. I copied what he was doing while I modeled the words “up” and “down” both verbally and on his Augmentative and Alternative Communication Device (AAC). He did not pay too much attention to me, but he let me do it and he was being exposed to language (win!).
Then I added to his play idea by getting really animated when I said “down” and crashed the animals all over the table. This made him smirk and look up at me. We did the routine again and this time he imitated my crashing motion. After a few repetitions, I added the idea of the animals jumping over each other and he imitated that too! My hope is that he remembers this expanded play idea the next time the animal bin comes out and he will use the language I modeled for him.
Now what do you do with a child that does not play with toys?
A child was wandering the room and spinning around in circles. I copied him by spinning too while I modeled the word “spin.” After a few moments, I said “stop” loudly while I stopped spinning and put my arms up in the air. I kept repeating this, hoping that the child would establish eye contact with me and/or copy my action. He did not, so I copied his spinning and then fell to the floor while I said the word “down.” He never looked at me directly, but eventually he fell to the floor too! We kept repeating this until he let me hold his hands and we were playing a modified version of Ring Around the Rosie.
What about children who tend to focus on tactile stimulation?
Let us say a child is running his fingers along window blinds. First, copy his action by running your own fingers along the blinds next to him. Then narrate what you are doing with simple language such as “up, down” or “open, close.” After a few repetitions, expand on this idea by adding one new idea. For example, when the blinds close, you can say, “Goodnight!” and pretend to sleep. When the blinds open, you can say, “Good morning!” with an exaggerated stretch and yawn.
Let us say another child is running his fingers over a bumpy surface. Copy the action then narrate such as exclaiming, “Bump!” or saying, “bumpy, bumpy, bumpy” in a sing song voice. Then add a new idea such as introducing a toy car and having it drive over the bump.
These strategies may not give you results every single time, but you are exposing the child to language and different play ideas and that is always a success! Here is the bottom line when playing with children on the spectrum: copy what the child is already doing and then add to it! Sara Roberts, MA CCC-SLP
Nanette Cote
Nanette Cote is an ASHA certified speech pathologist, published author, and private practice business owner with 30 years experience.
